Life has been busy since the arrival of Elizabeth which has meant no time to write anything down. Here is a little overview of our lives in the past month.
Eric went back to work when Elizabeth was 3 weeks and for the last 4 plus weeks, the kids and I have been trying to figure everything out.
Elizabeth is a great sleeper at night and ranges between 6-8 straight hours at a time, so at least I don't feel like a walking zombie during the day.
Emma and Josh have been fantastic and are keeping each other company when I can't play with them.
Emma is a tremendous helper and Josh is too. They love Elizabeth but are still figuring out what a baby really is. Emma just doesn't understand why she won't stop crying sometimes (which she really only does in the car seat when she wants someone to be holding her) and Josh doesn't understand why he can't smother her with hugs and kisses.
Church is a struggle with 3 but we have made it every week.
Sophie (our dog) is majorly neglected right now but someone has to be and she is it.
All my Christmas shopping is done and somehow I have already managed to wrap almost everything.
Christmas cards are done and mailed.
Eric has been able to get out a few times to hunt and I have been able to get out a few times for time with girlfriends.
This week I start working out again (I always dread it when I haven't been doing it but know once I get back in the swing of things, I will love it again.)
We had out annual gingerbread party for the kids and though it was a smaller crowd this year, had a great time.
Well, I'm sure there is a bunch of other stuff but honestly my mommy brain can't remember much more than this. It's a small miracle if dinner is made when Eric gets home from work (which I must say, has been happening more frequently than not) and if the house isn't a complete disaster. Things can only get easier from here, or so I'm told!
Friday, December 9, 2011
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Big sis, big bro
Emma and Josh got to meet Elizabeth the morning after she was born. Both were very excited to finally meet their new little sister. They came bringing cute cards they had made for me and Elizabeth had gotten them a present too, new water bottles (I still remember going to the hospital to see my mom and the present Danielle got for me when she was born so I wanted to continue this tradition with my own family).
Emma was the first to greet Elizabeth and ask to feed and hold her, Josh was a bit more timid but warmed up quickly. Both took turns meeting her and spent their time bonding with first holds, cuddles, and kisses. Sibling love is an incredible gift and it was a blessing watching the interaction between my 3 children. I pray that they will forever be each others best friends and will always have one and another to hold on to.
Emma was the first to greet Elizabeth and ask to feed and hold her, Josh was a bit more timid but warmed up quickly. Both took turns meeting her and spent their time bonding with first holds, cuddles, and kisses. Sibling love is an incredible gift and it was a blessing watching the interaction between my 3 children. I pray that they will forever be each others best friends and will always have one and another to hold on to.
Monday, November 7, 2011
Elizabeth Joy
After what seemed like the longest pregnancy ever, Elizabeth finally arrived on Friday, October 21. She made a quick entrance in to this world, only 5 hours after being induced. While driving home from working a full day and being completely relieved that I'd made it through two big meetings that week, I realized I hadn't really felt the baby move all day. I decided to call my doctor's office and let them know. They obviously needed something to do there so I was told to come down to be monitored, so Eric and I dropped the kids off with my parents and headed over. After a rough start, Elizabeth's heart rate finally started acting like it was supposed to but I agreed to an ultrasound just to be sure. Mostly because we didn't realize my amniotic fluid was so low with Josh at 38 weeks until we did an ultrasound. Turned out my fluid was on the low side again (not as low as with Josh) and with the decreased fetal movement, the doctor in the office recommended induction. He consulted with my doctor and soon we were headed to Mercy Gilbert for the dreaded induction.
I was bound and determined to make this a better experience than I had with Josh and was happy I had learned a few things last time. First, don't eat anything before receiving the medication. Second, be very adamant that I didn't want to be offered an epidural (it's very easy to be talked in to one when you're in a ton of pain). Third and once again, don't eat anything!
I am happy to say that this experience was much better and I no longer fear being induced like I did before. I was given the medication at 6 pm and by 10 pm I was starting to have some stronger contractions. My doctor checked me at 10 pm and I was only dilated half a centimeter more than I was at 6 pm. He did reassure me that the medicine did what it was supposed to do and that I was ready for contractions to start. He decided to hold off on breaking my water or giving me pitocin, which I didn't quite understand but whatever, I'm not the doctor. He obviously knows me pretty well after having delivered my other 2 kids because by 10:30 I was asking Eric to call the nurse because I'd either peed all over myself or my water had broken. Thankfully it was my water, I was a little mortified that I had peed myself. :o) After that, it was all down hill. The contractions were relentless for the next 30 minutes and never let up. By 11:01, it was all over and Elizabeth was here. She was amazing and I was so glad that all those weeks of pregnancy had come to an end with another beautiful baby girl!
I was bound and determined to make this a better experience than I had with Josh and was happy I had learned a few things last time. First, don't eat anything before receiving the medication. Second, be very adamant that I didn't want to be offered an epidural (it's very easy to be talked in to one when you're in a ton of pain). Third and once again, don't eat anything!
I am happy to say that this experience was much better and I no longer fear being induced like I did before. I was given the medication at 6 pm and by 10 pm I was starting to have some stronger contractions. My doctor checked me at 10 pm and I was only dilated half a centimeter more than I was at 6 pm. He did reassure me that the medicine did what it was supposed to do and that I was ready for contractions to start. He decided to hold off on breaking my water or giving me pitocin, which I didn't quite understand but whatever, I'm not the doctor. He obviously knows me pretty well after having delivered my other 2 kids because by 10:30 I was asking Eric to call the nurse because I'd either peed all over myself or my water had broken. Thankfully it was my water, I was a little mortified that I had peed myself. :o) After that, it was all down hill. The contractions were relentless for the next 30 minutes and never let up. By 11:01, it was all over and Elizabeth was here. She was amazing and I was so glad that all those weeks of pregnancy had come to an end with another beautiful baby girl!
Thursday, October 20, 2011
Still waiting
Still waiting for the baby to make her grand entrance in to this world. I am 3 days away from 40 weeks and definitely ready for her to come. I'm trying not to complain too much and just be grateful that I was able to carry another child full term but as the days go by, my restraint on my whiny self lessens.
I think the hardest part right now, is working. Today I couldn't even make it a full day. I hate coming home and wasting my sick time when she isn't here yet, it just means less time together once she does come. But, I know that pushing myself to stay at work and feeling yucky all day isn't good for me, the baby, or my students. Say a prayer that this munckin comes soon or her momma might go postal.
I'm not the only one anticipating the baby's arrival. Emma is very anxious to meet her little sister and prays every night that she would come very soon so that mommy can sleep again. So sweet, little does she know, my sleepless nights won't end even when I get my body back! Josh is excited for the baby in his own way too. He likes to say hi and bye to my belly and in the last week, gave up the crib for his baby sister. Last night was the first night he was a terror but I'm praying it was just a random event and not related to being in the bed instead of the crib.
Eric is also ready for the baby to come. I think what he really wants is more than a tiny corner of the bed back. Poor guy, I toss and turn so much anymore that I doubt he's sleeping that great either. Today was the day that he picked for her arrival and he's very ready to have some time off of work to spend with the kids and I.
So here we are, waiting. Hopefully, it's not too much longer and our adventures as a family of 5 (good grief, 5) can begin!
I think the hardest part right now, is working. Today I couldn't even make it a full day. I hate coming home and wasting my sick time when she isn't here yet, it just means less time together once she does come. But, I know that pushing myself to stay at work and feeling yucky all day isn't good for me, the baby, or my students. Say a prayer that this munckin comes soon or her momma might go postal.
I'm not the only one anticipating the baby's arrival. Emma is very anxious to meet her little sister and prays every night that she would come very soon so that mommy can sleep again. So sweet, little does she know, my sleepless nights won't end even when I get my body back! Josh is excited for the baby in his own way too. He likes to say hi and bye to my belly and in the last week, gave up the crib for his baby sister. Last night was the first night he was a terror but I'm praying it was just a random event and not related to being in the bed instead of the crib.
Eric is also ready for the baby to come. I think what he really wants is more than a tiny corner of the bed back. Poor guy, I toss and turn so much anymore that I doubt he's sleeping that great either. Today was the day that he picked for her arrival and he's very ready to have some time off of work to spend with the kids and I.
So here we are, waiting. Hopefully, it's not too much longer and our adventures as a family of 5 (good grief, 5) can begin!
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Say cheese
A few weeks ago, Eric took some pictures of me and the kids. I had some great ideas in mind but didn't realize what unwilling subjects a 5 year old and a 2 and a half year old could be. Here are a few of our favorites.
Monday, September 5, 2011
The Big 5
Soon we will be celebrating Emma's 5th birthday! Where in the world have the past five years gone? I still cannot believe the first baby we brought home from the hospital who terrified me so much (at the time, not much anymore) is almost 5! In order to properly celebrate Emma's big 5, we promised her a party with all of her friends. We decided after her 2nd birthday party that in our house, birthdays were going to be a family event except at big milestones. In my mind, 5 is a big deal and Emma is all geared up for her big day.
I have been thinking and planning for about a week now, I have so many ideas in my head but then I snap back to reality and remember my due date is 2 weeks after Emma's birthday. Not wanting Emma to be shoved aside because of the baby, I have included her in the decision making. She loves to be in charge (just like her mom) and so far we know we are having a pirate themed party with a bounce house. Now, I just need to iron out the rest of the details and hope bambino numero 3 decides to cooperate and we should be good to go!
I have been thinking and planning for about a week now, I have so many ideas in my head but then I snap back to reality and remember my due date is 2 weeks after Emma's birthday. Not wanting Emma to be shoved aside because of the baby, I have included her in the decision making. She loves to be in charge (just like her mom) and so far we know we are having a pirate themed party with a bounce house. Now, I just need to iron out the rest of the details and hope bambino numero 3 decides to cooperate and we should be good to go!
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Triage
On Tuesday afternoon I started having some contractions at work. I asked a coworker who has 3 of her own if she ever had Braxton Hicks because I never did with Emma or Josh. I assumed that's what was happening but by dinner time I was having a contraction every five minutes or so. By 7pm, I had tried laying down, drinking plenty of water, and elevating my feet. At 8pm I decided to call my doc and get his take on things. He prompted me to head to the hospital, assuring me that it was probably no big deal but rather be safe then sorry.
Eric and I arrived at the hospital around 9, got checked in and taken up to triage in a wheelchair (completely unnecessary but I guess it's hospital policy). They monitored the baby for 2 hours and ran a few tests to make sure I wasn't in early labor. All the tests came back great and the nurse said the baby looked great too. Thank goodness!
The trip was not a bust in the end though because Eric and I got some really great laughs listening to the other couples around us. Being on number 3, we are professionals at labor and delivery (obviously in our minds) and it was amusing to hear the reactions of first time parents while in triage. Hopefully karma will not come back to bite us in the butt and I can only hope someone 5 years ago found us comical when we were having Emma. :o)
Eric and I arrived at the hospital around 9, got checked in and taken up to triage in a wheelchair (completely unnecessary but I guess it's hospital policy). They monitored the baby for 2 hours and ran a few tests to make sure I wasn't in early labor. All the tests came back great and the nurse said the baby looked great too. Thank goodness!
The trip was not a bust in the end though because Eric and I got some really great laughs listening to the other couples around us. Being on number 3, we are professionals at labor and delivery (obviously in our minds) and it was amusing to hear the reactions of first time parents while in triage. Hopefully karma will not come back to bite us in the butt and I can only hope someone 5 years ago found us comical when we were having Emma. :o)
Friday, August 12, 2011
House of Mouse
During our California trip, we'd planned to take the kids to Knott's Berry Farm but at the last minute switched our plans and decided to go to Disneyland. My grandparents live about 10 minutes from the park so we packed up some food and snacks and headed to the Happiest Place on Earth.
The park was relatively uncrowded for a summer day and the kids were really excited by all there was to see. Eric and I decided to fore-go the pictures at the Mickey Mouse designed out of flowers so that we could head straight to rides. Our first stop was Buzz Lightyear, our favorite ride. We also knew the kids would love it since they are on such a Toy Story kick right now. After that, we stayed in Tomorrowland for a bit and then wandered to Fantasyland. In Fantasy Land, I began to feel pretty warm and dizzy and needed to sit down for awhile. The temperature was only 85 degrees but the humidity was high and I swear air really does not move through that park.
We sat down for lunch at the Village Haus Restaurant and after some food and air conditioning, I felt much better. Frontierland was next on our journey and while Eric and Emma went on Big Thunder Railroad, Josh and I went looking for some Mickey shaped lollipops. Lollipops acquired, we rode Pirates of the Caribbean which both kids were absolutely scared of while on but claimed it was their favorite ride once we were off. Fantasyland and Kind Arthur's Carousel were calling the kids names and after riding again for the fourth time, Eric and I decided it was time to head out. Both kids were exhausted and I was getting really dizzy again. Emma was upset to go but we promised her if she took a good nap, we would put Josh to bed early and come back to the park with her. She agreed quickly and took over a 2 hour nap so we put Josh down for bed at 6 (poor boy was so tired, only taking an hour nap in the stroller at the park and put up no fight going to bed so early).
The weather was gorgeous once we got back to the park and it was still relatively uncrowded. We had a great time spending the evening with Emma, she was so excited to see the fireworks and we ended the night getting ice cream at Gibson Girl. Back in the car, Emma immediatley passed out but not before asking us when we could go again. I told Eric that I would be ready in another 5 years, I love Disneyland am glad the kids had such a great day but I've gotten my fix and 5 years sounds good to me.
The park was relatively uncrowded for a summer day and the kids were really excited by all there was to see. Eric and I decided to fore-go the pictures at the Mickey Mouse designed out of flowers so that we could head straight to rides. Our first stop was Buzz Lightyear, our favorite ride. We also knew the kids would love it since they are on such a Toy Story kick right now. After that, we stayed in Tomorrowland for a bit and then wandered to Fantasyland. In Fantasy Land, I began to feel pretty warm and dizzy and needed to sit down for awhile. The temperature was only 85 degrees but the humidity was high and I swear air really does not move through that park.
We sat down for lunch at the Village Haus Restaurant and after some food and air conditioning, I felt much better. Frontierland was next on our journey and while Eric and Emma went on Big Thunder Railroad, Josh and I went looking for some Mickey shaped lollipops. Lollipops acquired, we rode Pirates of the Caribbean which both kids were absolutely scared of while on but claimed it was their favorite ride once we were off. Fantasyland and Kind Arthur's Carousel were calling the kids names and after riding again for the fourth time, Eric and I decided it was time to head out. Both kids were exhausted and I was getting really dizzy again. Emma was upset to go but we promised her if she took a good nap, we would put Josh to bed early and come back to the park with her. She agreed quickly and took over a 2 hour nap so we put Josh down for bed at 6 (poor boy was so tired, only taking an hour nap in the stroller at the park and put up no fight going to bed so early).
The weather was gorgeous once we got back to the park and it was still relatively uncrowded. We had a great time spending the evening with Emma, she was so excited to see the fireworks and we ended the night getting ice cream at Gibson Girl. Back in the car, Emma immediatley passed out but not before asking us when we could go again. I told Eric that I would be ready in another 5 years, I love Disneyland am glad the kids had such a great day but I've gotten my fix and 5 years sounds good to me.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Easy come, easy go
About a month ago we transitioned Josh in to Emma's old toddler bed since the new bunk bed had arrived. He did fantastic the first few nights and then everything went downhill from there. First the 5:30 wake up calls started, then the up multiple times a night happened. I figured he was just adjusting and that in time, he would get himself situated. Not so much! Things got so bad I had to block his door with a gate (which I did with Emma but she got the idea after 3 days). Once his three hour naps went down to an hour and I had an actual crying meltdown from lack of sleep, we decided Josh (and the rest of the family) is not ready for the big boy bed yet.
So at this moment, I have no idea what we are doing when the baby comes. Most people say it's no big deal because the baby will sleep in our room for the first few months anyway. Again, not so much. Emma lasted in our room 5 days and went packing, Josh was 2 days. We are not even attempting this one, I just can't sleep with a baby in the same room! Honestly, I am debating on pulling a bed in our room for Emma. Good grief, I should have listened to Eric 5 years ago when we bought this house and made sure we had 4 bedrooms. So much for my they can share rooms mentality, guess we'll see what happens.
So at this moment, I have no idea what we are doing when the baby comes. Most people say it's no big deal because the baby will sleep in our room for the first few months anyway. Again, not so much. Emma lasted in our room 5 days and went packing, Josh was 2 days. We are not even attempting this one, I just can't sleep with a baby in the same room! Honestly, I am debating on pulling a bed in our room for Emma. Good grief, I should have listened to Eric 5 years ago when we bought this house and made sure we had 4 bedrooms. So much for my they can share rooms mentality, guess we'll see what happens.
Friday, July 22, 2011
California 2011
A few weeks ago our family headed to California to spend time with my grandparents. We packed up the car Friday night and headed out on Saturday morning. The drive was good minus the mini meltdown Josh had when he needed to use the bathroom 15 miles from Blythe. We were all exhausted when we got to my grandparent's house and spent the rest of the day taking it easy.
Sunday morning we headed to church at the parish I grew up going to when my family visited. Though very Catholic, this church truly makes me thankful for the community that we have at our church. Mass was a struggle to get through but with enough fruit snacks and coloring books, the kids made it. In the evening we headed to Laguna Beach to meet up with family from Eric's side. I haven't been to Laguna since I was a child and forgot how crowded it can get especially on the weekend. We ended up in a not so crowded spot once on the beach and the kids had a great time. I personally HATE California beaches, but they are a little harder to hate when watching the pure enjoyment on your kid's faces as they play in the sand and water. After the beach, we went to Ruby's Diner for dinner and then headed back.
Emma contemplating the water
Getting in after a little persuasion from her cousin Kate
Josh checking out the water (later he and Eric got in but of course I didn't think to take a picture) and me with my huge stomach and awful beach hair :o)
Monday was July 4th and after naps we met back up with Eric's family for a picnic in the park. Their mommies club had reserved a spot in a nice park and rented a bounce house. Everyone brought tons of food and there was also a ton of kids for Emma and Josh to run around with. Around 6:45 we got on our way and I assumed we would put the kids down when we got back. Little did I know that my grandpa had sent my cousins off to buy fireworks and that the entire neighborhood comes out at dusk to start lighting off their own fireworks. Emma and Josh were so excited watching the neighbors that we allowed them to stay up late and be a part of the festivities.
My grandpa and Josh (my grandpa really likes Josh, he hardly ever smiles for the camera)
I love their faces, such awe
After the 10th time, they were old pros
The next day we took an impromptu trip to Disneyland which I will blog about later!
On Wednesday we left for home after spending the morning with my grandparents. I hate saying goodbye to them, it gets harder every time I do it. Despite the sadness, it makes my heart happy the kids have the opportunity to know their great grandparents and that we will be able to share these memories with them as they grow.
Sunday morning we headed to church at the parish I grew up going to when my family visited. Though very Catholic, this church truly makes me thankful for the community that we have at our church. Mass was a struggle to get through but with enough fruit snacks and coloring books, the kids made it. In the evening we headed to Laguna Beach to meet up with family from Eric's side. I haven't been to Laguna since I was a child and forgot how crowded it can get especially on the weekend. We ended up in a not so crowded spot once on the beach and the kids had a great time. I personally HATE California beaches, but they are a little harder to hate when watching the pure enjoyment on your kid's faces as they play in the sand and water. After the beach, we went to Ruby's Diner for dinner and then headed back.
Emma contemplating the water
Getting in after a little persuasion from her cousin Kate
Josh checking out the water (later he and Eric got in but of course I didn't think to take a picture) and me with my huge stomach and awful beach hair :o)
The kids discovered the Frisbee in my grandpa's shed and played every day with my grandma
My grandpa and Josh (my grandpa really likes Josh, he hardly ever smiles for the camera)
I love their faces, such awe
After the 10th time, they were old pros
The next day we took an impromptu trip to Disneyland which I will blog about later!
On Wednesday we left for home after spending the morning with my grandparents. I hate saying goodbye to them, it gets harder every time I do it. Despite the sadness, it makes my heart happy the kids have the opportunity to know their great grandparents and that we will be able to share these memories with them as they grow.
Friday, July 15, 2011
BFF
This blog is an ode to my BFF, we are a bit distant right now. Summer time is my favorite time for us to hang out, especially when the days are really hot, which in AZ is everyday. I know in a few months we can be together again but for now whether from Pita Jungle, In N Out, Starbucks, or Sonic, I miss you!
Saturday, July 9, 2011
Half way there
The bad news is, my summer vacation is half way over. The good news is, I still have a month off. We have been keeping ourselves pretty busy and the time is flying by.
Eric was promoted at the end of May to branch manager is now making a much longer drive to work then ever before. He is hoping to get an assistant in his new branch soon but probably not before the summer is over. In the middle of June, he helped work the Life Teen Convention at the Scottsdale Double Tree and we were lucky enough to spend a night at the hotel with him. Emma and I also made it back one day for lunch and swimming at the hotel. He says doing the convention is work but I still think he has too much fun doing it to call it work. For his birthday, the kids and I, Eric's family, and my parents all went in together and got him the reloading press he's been wanting. My dad also gave him a giant work bench to mount it on so he has a pretty decent set up. Since starting his new job, Eric hasn't had much free time and has skipped playing Ultimate Frisbee which he normally does on Wednesday nights. He also hasn't had much time to go out shooting or hunting but I am sure that when he gets more settled at work, he will.
Emma and Josh have both been in swim lessons all summer long and are making terrific progress. Emma is starting to swim (actually swim) independently for the first time and Josh no longer screams his head off when we go to a pool. We have been catching up on play dates with friends we don't see as often as we used to and attending our summer movie club on Fridays. The new bunk beds were delivered 2 weeks ago and Emma loves sleeping on the top bunk. We are going to move Josh from the crib to the toddler bed in the next few weeks and he seems eager to sleep on the new bunks too. The kid's Ya-Ya got them matching sheet sets for their new beds which they love. Both are at a stage right now where they are each others best friend one minute and worst enemy the next. They play together so well at times, laughing and being silly and other times I can't keep them from screaming at each other or pounding on each other. Can't wait to add another one to the mix!
Emma is still as sassy as ever and is the strongest willed thing I know. My mom laughs and says she is just like me, fantastic. She is so smart and has a memory unlike any 4 year old I have met. I truly am not being bias either, I have worked with children for too many years now and know the difference. She loves school and misses her preschool teacher and friends a great deal. Every day she asks me when school starts again, I can only hope this love for learning is always in her. Lately she has been making up new words to songs she knows and loves singing to herself when she thinks no one is listening. She has learned most of the songs we frequently sing at church and can be very good during mass. She loves her new sister and rubs my stomach often. She likes to feel the baby kick and continually asks when she will be here. She is always suggesting names for the baby but seems stuck on Rosie right now.
Josh is our crazy little guy. He is so sweet and lovable but the terrible two's continue to get in the way. He is definitely trying to find himself and figure out what he can and can't get away with right now. He loves rough and tumble play and loves to make Emma scream. He goes after her with everything he's got just to have her run away, I swear if she stood up for herself that he'd leave her alone. He is very loving to other children smaller than him but often in a rough way, you can tell by his face he means to be sweet unfortunately it comes in the form of a squeeze to strong. Josh's best buddy is Eric and when dad is around, I am practically invisible. I am amazed at how bright Josh has turned out to be too, he is already using words correctly that most 2 and 1/2 year old don't say, like actually. What 2 year old says actually and uses it right? At the beginning of summer vacation I began potty training him and after one terrible week, he had it down. He wears underpants all day long and only occasionally has a small leak but will tell you right away he needs to go. Josh talks about the new baby often but I know he's got no idea what's in store, he will be a great big brother though.
As for me, I am 25 weeks along now and feel very pregnant. I can't complain much though, its been nice being off from work and spending a lot of time in the pool. My belly is huge even though Eric says it's no bigger than with Josh, I think he's just trying to be nice. I haven't done much with my time this summer beside the normal day to day stuff. I have been planning my little sister's baby shower (she is due 3 weeks before me) and getting together with friends for girl time, so I guess I've been busy enough.
We just got back from 5 days in California with my grandparents and luckily Eric gets another week off in August before I go back to work. I am enjoying being home and excited to see what the rest of my break will bring us.
Eric was promoted at the end of May to branch manager is now making a much longer drive to work then ever before. He is hoping to get an assistant in his new branch soon but probably not before the summer is over. In the middle of June, he helped work the Life Teen Convention at the Scottsdale Double Tree and we were lucky enough to spend a night at the hotel with him. Emma and I also made it back one day for lunch and swimming at the hotel. He says doing the convention is work but I still think he has too much fun doing it to call it work. For his birthday, the kids and I, Eric's family, and my parents all went in together and got him the reloading press he's been wanting. My dad also gave him a giant work bench to mount it on so he has a pretty decent set up. Since starting his new job, Eric hasn't had much free time and has skipped playing Ultimate Frisbee which he normally does on Wednesday nights. He also hasn't had much time to go out shooting or hunting but I am sure that when he gets more settled at work, he will.
Emma and Josh have both been in swim lessons all summer long and are making terrific progress. Emma is starting to swim (actually swim) independently for the first time and Josh no longer screams his head off when we go to a pool. We have been catching up on play dates with friends we don't see as often as we used to and attending our summer movie club on Fridays. The new bunk beds were delivered 2 weeks ago and Emma loves sleeping on the top bunk. We are going to move Josh from the crib to the toddler bed in the next few weeks and he seems eager to sleep on the new bunks too. The kid's Ya-Ya got them matching sheet sets for their new beds which they love. Both are at a stage right now where they are each others best friend one minute and worst enemy the next. They play together so well at times, laughing and being silly and other times I can't keep them from screaming at each other or pounding on each other. Can't wait to add another one to the mix!
Emma is still as sassy as ever and is the strongest willed thing I know. My mom laughs and says she is just like me, fantastic. She is so smart and has a memory unlike any 4 year old I have met. I truly am not being bias either, I have worked with children for too many years now and know the difference. She loves school and misses her preschool teacher and friends a great deal. Every day she asks me when school starts again, I can only hope this love for learning is always in her. Lately she has been making up new words to songs she knows and loves singing to herself when she thinks no one is listening. She has learned most of the songs we frequently sing at church and can be very good during mass. She loves her new sister and rubs my stomach often. She likes to feel the baby kick and continually asks when she will be here. She is always suggesting names for the baby but seems stuck on Rosie right now.
Josh is our crazy little guy. He is so sweet and lovable but the terrible two's continue to get in the way. He is definitely trying to find himself and figure out what he can and can't get away with right now. He loves rough and tumble play and loves to make Emma scream. He goes after her with everything he's got just to have her run away, I swear if she stood up for herself that he'd leave her alone. He is very loving to other children smaller than him but often in a rough way, you can tell by his face he means to be sweet unfortunately it comes in the form of a squeeze to strong. Josh's best buddy is Eric and when dad is around, I am practically invisible. I am amazed at how bright Josh has turned out to be too, he is already using words correctly that most 2 and 1/2 year old don't say, like actually. What 2 year old says actually and uses it right? At the beginning of summer vacation I began potty training him and after one terrible week, he had it down. He wears underpants all day long and only occasionally has a small leak but will tell you right away he needs to go. Josh talks about the new baby often but I know he's got no idea what's in store, he will be a great big brother though.
As for me, I am 25 weeks along now and feel very pregnant. I can't complain much though, its been nice being off from work and spending a lot of time in the pool. My belly is huge even though Eric says it's no bigger than with Josh, I think he's just trying to be nice. I haven't done much with my time this summer beside the normal day to day stuff. I have been planning my little sister's baby shower (she is due 3 weeks before me) and getting together with friends for girl time, so I guess I've been busy enough.
We just got back from 5 days in California with my grandparents and luckily Eric gets another week off in August before I go back to work. I am enjoying being home and excited to see what the rest of my break will bring us.
Friday, June 10, 2011
Summer movie fun
We don't go to the movies often. Before the kids came along, Eric and I saw a lot of movies. Once you have a baby, it's not really worth getting a sitter and paying him/her $15, plus $20 for the movies with no food or drink because that could easily cost another $10, and then spending 2-3 hours sitting in silence while you could be doing something more constructive. Don't get me wrong, I love movies and we still watch them, just now on Blu-ray in the comfort of our home for a giant savings once the kids are in bed.
In April, a friend told me about the summer movie program offered by Harkin's Theatres and I didn't really pursue it because I figured Emma and Josh were too young for multiple weeks of movies. We are not anti-tv in our house but neither child will really sit and just watch for more than a half an hour at a time without getting distracted by something else. Emma has been to the theater 4 times and does rather well and Josh has been once (with their sitter who said he did well but I wasn't so sure).
After hearing another friend talk about how cheap the tickets are for the summer movies I decided to check it out. I was amazed by the good deal the tickets really are. I also liked that you picked the day to go and the theater you wanted. Luckily, a friend I used to teach with was able to get 2 tickets (Josh is still free. Bonus!) for Fridays through her school before they went on sale to the public.
Today was our first trip to the movies, we missed last we because of the ultrasound. I was a bit worried, the movie was not a cartoon and I wasn't sure how it would go over. The kids did fantastic, Josh even better than Emma! We got some popcorn in a refillable bag (after the refill, I plan on popping my own and bringing it) and had souvenir cups that refill for $1. The movie was cute as can be and one of my favorite childhood books and the whole adventure cost us less than $10. I am looking forward to next week and going back to the movie feeater (as Josh says) with the kids!
In April, a friend told me about the summer movie program offered by Harkin's Theatres and I didn't really pursue it because I figured Emma and Josh were too young for multiple weeks of movies. We are not anti-tv in our house but neither child will really sit and just watch for more than a half an hour at a time without getting distracted by something else. Emma has been to the theater 4 times and does rather well and Josh has been once (with their sitter who said he did well but I wasn't so sure).
After hearing another friend talk about how cheap the tickets are for the summer movies I decided to check it out. I was amazed by the good deal the tickets really are. I also liked that you picked the day to go and the theater you wanted. Luckily, a friend I used to teach with was able to get 2 tickets (Josh is still free. Bonus!) for Fridays through her school before they went on sale to the public.
Today was our first trip to the movies, we missed last we because of the ultrasound. I was a bit worried, the movie was not a cartoon and I wasn't sure how it would go over. The kids did fantastic, Josh even better than Emma! We got some popcorn in a refillable bag (after the refill, I plan on popping my own and bringing it) and had souvenir cups that refill for $1. The movie was cute as can be and one of my favorite childhood books and the whole adventure cost us less than $10. I am looking forward to next week and going back to the movie feeater (as Josh says) with the kids!
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
It's a.....
Last Friday, we had our 20 week ultrasound. Last Wednesday, we were not finding out the sex of the baby. Last Thursday night as I put Emma to bed and talked to her about coming to the ultrasound she asked me some very valid questions.
Question #1 Do they put on special glasses to see the baby in your belly?
Question #2 Does the gel they put on the special wand hurt when they look at the baby?
Question #3 Will it take a long time?
Question #4 Will they be able to tell me if I'm having a baby brother or a baby sister?
I thought it was so adorable that she was taking such an interest in the ultrasound that I called my mom and told her the story. After talking with her, I decided it was silly to not find out the sex when Emma was so excited to know.
On Friday, we arrived at 10:30. 45 minutes later I was finally being called back, honestly who makes a pregnant girl with a full bladder wait that long! Turns out they had gotten new equipment and the ultrasound tech was being trained. So yes, we got to see the baby on a giant flat screen tv instead of the normal tiny monitor but I still think my bladder is revolting.
After getting all the standard questions and measurements out of the way, the tech asked if we'd like to know the babies sex. We directed the question to Emma and let her be in charge (which she loves to do) and she answered quickly that she wanted to know. Later Eric and I agreed that we had both already figured out what the baby was when the tech was searching in that area before asking us. I guess after 5 ultrasounds, you get pretty good at knowing what to look for!
Emma is excited that she is having a baby sister and Eric is still trying to cope with the fact that we will be paying for two weddings one day. I am excited to be having another girl and even more excited that her birthday falls in the same season as Emma's. Thank God for hand-me-downs! I think a little girl will be easier for Josh to adjust to and that he is going to be sweeter with her than he would be with a boy.
I am glad in the end we decided (with a little persuasion from Emma) to find out. I probably would have gone crazy not knowing and now I can start laundry before she arrives. We can also start the never ending task that is throwing around names. Maybe just maybe, she might be our first child with a name before they force us to name her in the hospital because the birth certificate has to be filled out. :o)
Question #1 Do they put on special glasses to see the baby in your belly?
Question #2 Does the gel they put on the special wand hurt when they look at the baby?
Question #3 Will it take a long time?
Question #4 Will they be able to tell me if I'm having a baby brother or a baby sister?
I thought it was so adorable that she was taking such an interest in the ultrasound that I called my mom and told her the story. After talking with her, I decided it was silly to not find out the sex when Emma was so excited to know.
On Friday, we arrived at 10:30. 45 minutes later I was finally being called back, honestly who makes a pregnant girl with a full bladder wait that long! Turns out they had gotten new equipment and the ultrasound tech was being trained. So yes, we got to see the baby on a giant flat screen tv instead of the normal tiny monitor but I still think my bladder is revolting.
After getting all the standard questions and measurements out of the way, the tech asked if we'd like to know the babies sex. We directed the question to Emma and let her be in charge (which she loves to do) and she answered quickly that she wanted to know. Later Eric and I agreed that we had both already figured out what the baby was when the tech was searching in that area before asking us. I guess after 5 ultrasounds, you get pretty good at knowing what to look for!
Emma is excited that she is having a baby sister and Eric is still trying to cope with the fact that we will be paying for two weddings one day. I am excited to be having another girl and even more excited that her birthday falls in the same season as Emma's. Thank God for hand-me-downs! I think a little girl will be easier for Josh to adjust to and that he is going to be sweeter with her than he would be with a boy.
I am glad in the end we decided (with a little persuasion from Emma) to find out. I probably would have gone crazy not knowing and now I can start laundry before she arrives. We can also start the never ending task that is throwing around names. Maybe just maybe, she might be our first child with a name before they force us to name her in the hospital because the birth certificate has to be filled out. :o)
Monday, May 30, 2011
Block party
On Saturday night our street had a block party. Eric already wrote about it so I will be lazy and let you ready about it on his blog, http://thehildwines.blogspot.com/
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
Numero 3
When Eric and I were first married, I wanted 4 children. When Emma was born, I wanted no more children. When Emma was close to 2, I changed my mind and knew I wanted another child. Right after Josh was born, I knew we would one day add another child to our family.
I am almost 16 weeks along and am excited for our third child to arrive sometime in October. This pregnancy has already been very different then my pregnancy with Emma and Josh. At exactly five weeks, I hit a brick wall and began feeling very sick. The thought of food made me nauseous but not eating made me sicker. I threw up almost every morning and sometimes in the afternoon or evening. I tried forcing myself to eat every 2 hours but sometimes I just couldn't do it. It was the longest 8 weeks of my life but finally at 13 weeks, I began to feel like food was my friend again. Right about then, my belly popped out and I definitely look more pregnant than I should for 16 weeks, but whatever.
Now that I am showing, Emma is excited and talks to me all the time about her new baby sister. I think it's adorable that she has deemed this baby a girl and it will be interesting to see who is right, her or Eric who has decided the baby is a boy. We should be scheduling our ultrasound soon and this time, we aren't going to find out what we are having. I'm not sure I won't go a bit nutty not knowing being that I am such a control freak but I am sure I can survive for 24 more weeks.
I am almost 16 weeks along and am excited for our third child to arrive sometime in October. This pregnancy has already been very different then my pregnancy with Emma and Josh. At exactly five weeks, I hit a brick wall and began feeling very sick. The thought of food made me nauseous but not eating made me sicker. I threw up almost every morning and sometimes in the afternoon or evening. I tried forcing myself to eat every 2 hours but sometimes I just couldn't do it. It was the longest 8 weeks of my life but finally at 13 weeks, I began to feel like food was my friend again. Right about then, my belly popped out and I definitely look more pregnant than I should for 16 weeks, but whatever.
Now that I am showing, Emma is excited and talks to me all the time about her new baby sister. I think it's adorable that she has deemed this baby a girl and it will be interesting to see who is right, her or Eric who has decided the baby is a boy. We should be scheduling our ultrasound soon and this time, we aren't going to find out what we are having. I'm not sure I won't go a bit nutty not knowing being that I am such a control freak but I am sure I can survive for 24 more weeks.
Monday, May 2, 2011
Easter
Our Easter was a beautiful day spent with family. We started out the morning by heading to 8:30 mass with m dad at Mary Magdalene. When we arrived, I was surprised to see that everyone was headed in to the church and that there were plenty of seats outside. I love sitting outside for mass, and was happy to sit under the tent in the beautiful weather that morning. After mass, my dad stayed for breakfast and we were able to Skype with Danielle, Kevin, and my mom (who was in NC for the week).
After naps we headed over to the Hildwine's house for an egg hunt and dinner. The kids loved finding their eggs and loved that each egg contained change for their piggy banks. Dinner was yummy (as it always is when Ginger cooks) and we had a nice time spending the evening with Eric's aunts, uncle, and cousin who were in town from Pennsylvania and New Jersey.
After naps we headed over to the Hildwine's house for an egg hunt and dinner. The kids loved finding their eggs and loved that each egg contained change for their piggy banks. Dinner was yummy (as it always is when Ginger cooks) and we had a nice time spending the evening with Eric's aunts, uncle, and cousin who were in town from Pennsylvania and New Jersey.
Starting out the hunt with brown paper bags b/c their mother forgot their Easter baskets
Sunday, April 24, 2011
To dye for
Well our eggs are not really to die for but it was fun coloring them nonetheless. Emma was like an old pro this year and knew just what to do. She kept giving tips to Josh who just didn't get the memo and dropped every egg into the dye cup which caused a big splash. He thought that it was fantastic and kept saying again with every splash, we finally cut him off when his hands were officially stained blue.
Later that day, both of the kids helped peel an egg, slice it with the magic egg slicer, and ate. Josh got about 1/2 of the way through and gave up and Emma took a few bites and mushed the rest to bits. I can't say I blame them much and am certainly glad Eric won't let the rest of the eggs go to waste.
Later that day, both of the kids helped peel an egg, slice it with the magic egg slicer, and ate. Josh got about 1/2 of the way through and gave up and Emma took a few bites and mushed the rest to bits. I can't say I blame them much and am certainly glad Eric won't let the rest of the eggs go to waste.
Saturday, April 9, 2011
D-O-G spells drama
Two Thursdays ago, we took Sophie in to have her spay, they told me at the clinic that everything went great and sent us home with some pain pills. By that evening Sophie started bleeding and I was a bit worried. On Friday the clinic called to check on her and told me that sometimes it is normal for female dogs to bleed a bit after surgery.
Saturday evening I decided to call a 24 hour vet hospital when I realized that she was still bleeding because I just didn't feel like it was normal. The vet hospital confirmed what the clinic said but that if it didn't stop by Sunday evening we should bring her in. They also instructed us to watch the color of her gums to determine if she was loosing too much blood.
Sophie continued to bleed on Sunday so Monday I called the clinic and took her back down to have the vet look her over. Turns out, she had an infection so they gave us antibiotics and sent us on our way. Tuesday morning we woke to find Sophie covered in blood and after calling the clinic again and being told to check back in on Wednesday, I decided to take her to our regular vet to get their opinion. Our vet agreed with the infection but wasn't sure why she was bleeding, he thought maybe she had a clotting problem and wanted to do some blood work. When he brought back a quote for $288 I nearly had a heart attack and decided we would watch her for another day. That evening while Eric and I were applying a warm compress to her belly, I noticed a small hole above her incision that was bleeding. Feeling confident in my own veterinary skills since I wasn't getting any answers from the actual vets, I decided this is why she had been bleeding so much the last day.
Wednesday morning I called the clinic once more and nicely insist they see her again. Hours later, I was called back and told to bring her in immediatley which I did when I was able to leave work. At first glance, they told me they would stitch up the hole but when they got a closer look, they decided to open the poor dog back up and start over. When I picked her up a few hours later they informed me she had a drainage tube placed under the incision and that they used nondissolvable stitches. I was also told that she had to be as inactive as possible for the next 5 days, total piece of cake with a lively puppy.
So, Sophie has been confined to her crate since Wednesday and I think she is starting to go a bit nuts. We let her out at night once the kids are in bed, she gets too crazy when they are up and a few times during the day to use the bathroom. Hopefully on Monday when I take her back to have the drain removed we will be able to be a little less restrictive with her. It will be nice when things are back to normal and the dog drama around here is over with!
Saturday evening I decided to call a 24 hour vet hospital when I realized that she was still bleeding because I just didn't feel like it was normal. The vet hospital confirmed what the clinic said but that if it didn't stop by Sunday evening we should bring her in. They also instructed us to watch the color of her gums to determine if she was loosing too much blood.
Sophie continued to bleed on Sunday so Monday I called the clinic and took her back down to have the vet look her over. Turns out, she had an infection so they gave us antibiotics and sent us on our way. Tuesday morning we woke to find Sophie covered in blood and after calling the clinic again and being told to check back in on Wednesday, I decided to take her to our regular vet to get their opinion. Our vet agreed with the infection but wasn't sure why she was bleeding, he thought maybe she had a clotting problem and wanted to do some blood work. When he brought back a quote for $288 I nearly had a heart attack and decided we would watch her for another day. That evening while Eric and I were applying a warm compress to her belly, I noticed a small hole above her incision that was bleeding. Feeling confident in my own veterinary skills since I wasn't getting any answers from the actual vets, I decided this is why she had been bleeding so much the last day.
Wednesday morning I called the clinic once more and nicely insist they see her again. Hours later, I was called back and told to bring her in immediatley which I did when I was able to leave work. At first glance, they told me they would stitch up the hole but when they got a closer look, they decided to open the poor dog back up and start over. When I picked her up a few hours later they informed me she had a drainage tube placed under the incision and that they used nondissolvable stitches. I was also told that she had to be as inactive as possible for the next 5 days, total piece of cake with a lively puppy.
So, Sophie has been confined to her crate since Wednesday and I think she is starting to go a bit nuts. We let her out at night once the kids are in bed, she gets too crazy when they are up and a few times during the day to use the bathroom. Hopefully on Monday when I take her back to have the drain removed we will be able to be a little less restrictive with her. It will be nice when things are back to normal and the dog drama around here is over with!
Sunday, April 3, 2011
New Love
Since the iPhone was first introduced years ago, I wanted one. Being the cheap girl I am (was?), it never happened and Eric nor I really wanted AT&T's service. We had both used all the networks over the years and Verizon was our favorite. When talk started about Verizon getting the iPhone, I was excited and now my day has finally come! I got my phone on Friday and LOVE it! I know that the Droids are just as cool and Eric really likes his but Steve Jobs can continue counting on me to throw my money at him.
Friday, March 18, 2011
Shower
As soon as Josh was able to sit in the baby bathtub unassisted, we began putting his tub in the big tub while Emma would take her bath. I love that from an early age the kids were taking bath together, such a great sibling bonding time. Last night I decided it was time for their first shower together. Emma began enjoying the shower about a year or more ago but Josh will ask to get in with Eric or I and then proceed to scream the entire time. I thought maybe if he took one with Emma, it would make the process more fun.
Once the right water temperature was found and body scrubbing was over (which was way easier because both were already standing), I threw in a bunch of toys and let them play. Both kids seemed to enjoy themselves and even though Josh got upset a time or two, overall I would say the shower was a success. Tonight I will keep my fingers crossed that it wasn't beginners luck.
Did you notice the location of the shower nozzle? Josh held it in this spot the entire time he was in the shower. At one point he even started twisting from left to right with the nozzle still in place, such a boy!
Once the right water temperature was found and body scrubbing was over (which was way easier because both were already standing), I threw in a bunch of toys and let them play. Both kids seemed to enjoy themselves and even though Josh got upset a time or two, overall I would say the shower was a success. Tonight I will keep my fingers crossed that it wasn't beginners luck.
Did you notice the location of the shower nozzle? Josh held it in this spot the entire time he was in the shower. At one point he even started twisting from left to right with the nozzle still in place, such a boy!
Friday, February 25, 2011
Joshua
Two years ago, God put the sweetest little boy in our lives. Today is Josh's second birthday and it's true what they say because time sure has flown. It has truly been a joy watching Josh grow over this past year and I love the little guy that he is. There are so many wonderful things about Josh but these are 10 things I want to remember most about him at this age.1. He is still super attached to his bear which he calls B
2. He loves his dad and prefers him over me almost all the time
3. He likes chocolate in M&M form or Hershey Kisses but not in cake or cookies
4. He loves playing outside and gets so upset when it's time to come inside
5. He has the cutest lisp
6. He really likes to Skype with Aunt Dani and Uncle Kevin
7. He enjoys a good argument with Emma and is smart enough to know how to hook her into one
8. He is obsessed with helmets and gets a kick out of any sport where the players wear them
9. He loves motorcycles and can spot one on any street as we drive
10. He is the best to cuddle with and snuggles right up to me when we rock before bed
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